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I have no one to tell IRL without getting shame so yeah.

  • simsalabim@lemmy.worldEnglish
    10·
    2 months ago

    Congratulation on accepting the person that you are. I hope that you get to live your best life soon. 🏳️‍🌈❤️

  • IninewCrow@lemmy.caEnglish
    9·
    2 months ago

    Good for you and all my love to you.

    Just a reminder, nothing about human sexuality is set in stone … we are very complicated beings.

    What your preference today is not the same as it was a year or two ago and it may not be the same years from now. We grow, we evolve, we change with time, environment, genetics, mentality and circumstances.

    Some people maintain their sexual preferences the same all their lives … some people change over time … some people are just all over the place.

    What I do know is that none of it matters. The common denominator is that you feel love, want love, want love shared with you and you want to share love with others.

    So no matter what you think or feel, as long as you are safe and the person you are with loves you and you love them and both of you consent to whatever it is you both want to do … none of it matters to the rest of us or the world … who you are at this moment is perfect.

  • BeeegScaaawyCripple@lemmy.worldEnglish
    8·
    2 months ago

    Neat! I’m in a similar situation. I have no need to come out to anyone but my wife, and she’s cool, so she’s the only person who knows me who knows.

  • fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    4·
    2 months ago

    Awesome! I had an awakening moment a while back and I actually feel better about myself because looking back a lot of things make sense now in my personal life.

    • Log in | Sign up@lemmy.worldEnglish
      61·
      2 months ago

      Congrats on misinterpreting other sexualities as character flaws.

      If you had to decide not to find people of the same gender sexually attractive, you’re not as straight as you like to think.

      • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        5·
        2 months ago

        I could have sworn that the comment you were replying to was satire. I suppose that due to Poe’s Law I can’t be sure of that though…

        • Log in | Sign up@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3·
          2 months ago

          Maybe, but like you say, is this an absurd parody of an insane rightwing nutjob, or just an insane rightwing nutjob? So hard to tell, and these days I find Onion headlines about what the GOP says completely plausible, no longer reacting “surely not?!” but instead “of course they do.”

          In any case this is an attitude from yesteryear that should have stayed there and needs calling out.

          If it was sarcasm, I’m agreeing with the intent of its author and if it wasn’t, I’m gleefully disagreeing.

          • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
            2·
            2 months ago

            Lol you people are silly. Nothing to do with politics, I’m left and bi as hell (pan, really) and conservatives can fuck well off with their nonsense. Embrace the sarcasm, accept your own desires, do away with shame, stop worrying about titles and start embracing titties. Stop being afraid, and start fuckin and suckin! Ain’t nothing wrong with being greedy and indecisive, just like there ain’t nothin’ wrong with not being greedy or indecisive. The point is to just accept who you are, regardless of what right wingers are doing over in their temples of shame. As long as you aren’t hurting anybody that doesn’t want it and there’s consent. You have one life, do everything you can and enjoy it.