My bears are so silly. Never change.
I kid, I don’t mind stuggle sessions actually. Sometimes they help us work out out dumb shit.
For anyone curious what the cat thing was, it wasn’t a big deal, we just had a funny semi-serious struggle session about whether people who hate cats are sus.
I still have yet to be proven people in blue suits aren’t asshole’s though! Every single one has either been something like a slimey insurance guy or a real estate agent!
Jk, my GP wears a blue suit and he’s pretty cool
Can’t speak for America from personal experience, but office attire in Europe has shifted a lot over the last 10-15 years outside of the finance sector. Obviously depends on the workplace, there’s always some small business tyrant who runs his firm as if it’s 1956, but if you show up with a tie in fields like media, it can actually come off as overdressed. So that things are becoming less obviously formal doesn’t mean they become less restrictive. When the dresscode is “smart casual”, you’re still expected to meet some standard of respectability, it is just more nebulous what that standard even is nowadays.