I was going to write about the worst book I ever read but life gets in the way sometimes.
Que sera sera
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I am now being confronted with the question if I want or not a monogamic relationship… Do I? Do I not? Hmmmmm. I like both of these people differently, one of them is poly and the other is not. Well, if we actually become a couple I’ll have to face this decision
Ive done both and I think monogamy is underrated. Poly is fun! And I dont think its unfulfilling or anything. But one special person who is your one and only - who knows you deeply and who you in turn know quite deeply - is underrated in the t4t space (at least my experience, does genuinely feel like there is more poly than monogamy in t4t dating lol)
It feels a lot like t4t is biased towards being poly. I wouldn’t mind being poly, open relationships are probably not really my thing, though. I see monogamy as bad only if it has the toxic aspects of control and not love and care