I’ve seen what unmoderated platforms look like, so, not being an ungrateful POS, I only complain about mods when it’s convenient to me in the moment.

I think that might be the reason why lemmy.world admin forced loose moderation policy on everyone recently.

That’s true for sure. Lemm.ee is better than some other instances in that regard, it’s federated to all the major ones. Lemmy.world also announced moderation changes recently, which seem to be going in a positive direction.