• Hikermick@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    Fun fact: in America asking “how’s it going?” is just a greeting, nobody really cares

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      5 months ago

      Won’t stop us from having a conversation or even just bitching about something that is randomly bothering us.

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      5 months ago

      Brits ofen say “You alright?” As a substitute for “Hi.”

      Pretty jarring when you’re not used to it. Id think “God, I must look like shit if they’re genuinely checking on my welfare!”

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        5 months ago

        Yeah Tom Scott did one of his linguistics videos about that, he had a word for it but some questions aren’t really questions they’re basically just rituals, though rephrased a different way makes them genuine questions, and when you have major dialects of the “same” language like British and American English, we use different ones. “Are you alright?” is basically a noise of greeting in Britain and an expression of genuine concern in America, while “How are you?” is the reverse.

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          5 months ago

          Chinese version 你吃了吗 or variations on that, although it’s not used so much anymore. Literally means “have you eaten”, except it doesn’t really require an answer. I imagine it came up in that video, but it’s a good one.

    • Monument@lemmy.sdf.org
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      5 months ago

      I always respond thoughtfully to people I don’t like. Then I ask how they are and watch them squirm.