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    6 months ago

    There is one thing for uber wealthy people to act poor but I dont care if a wealthy person finds happiness in a frugal lifestyle. Sharing in cultures is vital to the human experience.

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      The crazy thing is that i i were filthy rich, the only thing that would change is that i wouldn’t go to work anymore, and i’d probably invest in some sort of farm/weekly market where you can buy actually fresh and cheap veggies and things like that and i wouldn’t have to care if it makes money. So i totally get that aspect of it. But pretending to be a complete hippie and selling that lifestyle while you’re clearly not, just seems weird

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        Not trying to be a contrarian but a lot of hippies were from rich backgrounds which is why they didn’t have to work to begin with.

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        See if there are any Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) orgs in your area, I used to go pick up a big box of produce every week at the farm where they grew them, was cool

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        Farmers markets, there usually held on weekends around here, get fresh fruit and vegetables from local growers.

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          I don’t think they needed to be educated on what a farmer’s market is.

          They are saying they’d stand a new one up

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          Where I am at least, the veggies can also be double to triple the price of the grocery store.

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      There’s this weird in between that many sister in law lives in. She buys everything at thrift stores but it’s those trendy super expensive thrift stores lol

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          Buffalo Exchange and similar stores like that are between thrift stores and consignment stores, they purchase their products either from customers for store credit or cherry pick at real thrift stores then mark it up to sell at the trendy store. Everything there has to meet a specific aesthetic.

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          They don’t go to goodwill lol. They go to the trendy vintage thrift stores downtown that sell a t shirt for $60

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      I don’t disagree with your sentiment taken in a vacuum, but gentrification (of housing and activities in general) is 100% a real thing and is almost always due to rich people trying to live a “frugal lifestyle.” Idk man, shit just sucks all around

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        Yeah, I get that but the complaint that these people with wealthy parents get to focus on art and lifestyle is a failure of the system not the person.

        We should all be able to do that but only the wealthy can, so spread the wealth yeah but dont hate on arts and independent thought, trying new things and seeking an environment you enjoy.

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          I’ve no problem with people who can afford it focusing their lives around art, lifestyle, experiences etc.

          What gets me is when such people describe it as some kind of moral choice and how people who aren’t doing that are somehow wrong, rather than “Oh my God I’m so exceptionally lucky to be able to live like this and will shut my fucking mouth to any judgement about other people who don’t have these opportunities because they’re busy trying not to be homeless”

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            amen. this is my biggest beef as well.

            i grew up poor. i am doing well. but the people aroppund me act like it’s a moral failing of my own that I didn’t spend 2-5 years backpacking around the world on my parents dime. I am ‘uncultured’ and ‘unambitious’ is what I constantly hear. OK… sorry I had to pay debts and build a career from the bottom because my parents didn’t give me a six figure job at their company…

            i like my life a lot. i feel like i have ‘made it’. but a lot of folks were born into more wealth than I will ever have… and for folks like this… my life is unworthy and pathetic. I’ve literally been told that ‘your space at uni was wasted’ by these rich pricks because they think they deserve more than me for their luck at the birth lottery.

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            Yeah, and like it’s kinda weird to me because in part a lot of my higher ideas and art and shit comes from my struggle as a proletariat and as some who’s sat at the do or die stage of life while trying to sleep in a car in temperatures my area doesn’t reach anymore.

            Like yeah, I’d love a break, but I need us to have a break, not me

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        ? in my expereince it’s just people with some money trying to find a affordable place to live… and it gets nicer, so richer people are interested in it… and so on and so on.

        it’s cyclical.

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        I think that is not necessarily true, just because they are wealthy does not mean they cannot then enjoy living frugally as a part of their chosen lifestyle.

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          But an essential part of “living frugally” is…being frugal. Co-opting the “style” of poverty while acting like you’re more spiritually enlightened for it while shelling out a fortune and constantly having a massive amount of money to fall back on while preaching frugality to a bunch of people who don’t have money is…gross.

          And if you watch the video, this isn’t just “trustafarians,” but also about the systems hat have been put in place in developing nations to traffic children to attract wealthy foreigners to “voluntourism” in their area and profit off of that exploitation while these wealthy “po-mouthing” kids can’t post about how generous they are and talk about how it changed their life.

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    Had a real waking up moment last week leaving one of my favorite venues seeing the band Chat Pile in a crowd of crusty, unwashed, punks, only to look at the parking lot after the show and see it filled with current model year Teslas, Mercedes, etc.

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      To be fair, there are also cases especially for older bands where their fanbase who were teens and young adults during their prime are now 40-50 year olds with families and are better off financially than they were back then.

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          They can’t. Gen X was the last generation that got wealthier with age and it’s gotten progressively worse for every subsequent generation.

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            They can it’s called getting a better job. There are tons of jobs out there making 100k a year in fields from computers to plumbing.

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              Yeah, because there’s absolutely no barriers to most people getting those jobs. People just don’t want more money 🙄

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                Well, one has to learn those things. But why are we shitting on people that do now?

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                  I’m not. I’m pointing out that you’re presenting it as something anyone can just do, which is far from the case.

                  Apart from many people simply lacking aptitude in the jobs you’re talking about (not everyone can learn any trade), dozens of millions of people are working the equivalent of more than a full time job to (most often with limited success) make ends meet. They don’t have time or energy left over from their CURRENT job(s) to retrain and/or apply for other jobs. It’s not like they can just take enough time off without being fired.

                  And then there’s the fact that a large portion of struggling people live in areas where those kinds of jobs at that kind of pay either don’t exist at all or there’s hundreds if not thousands that want the job per opening.

                  And no, those people can’t just move. Moving costs a lot of money, time, and energy that the average working poor simply don’t have.

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                depends on the circumstances.

                lots of people have barriers. lots of other people are simply lazy and refuse to help themselves.

                and lots of folks just want someone to give them lots and lots money for merely existing so they can be a leech on others and society.

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                  lots of folks just want someone to give them lots and lots money for merely existing so they can be a leech on others and society.

                  Those are called billionaires

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        I mean give the price of tickets. I have went to like 3 concerts (paid for rock ones) in my lifetime and never to a festival that had admission.

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      Love Chat Pile! Actually saw them on Saturday night in Chattanooga, on their new tour with Portrayal of Guilt. They always put on a fantastic show.

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        They’re phenomenal live, I’ve seen them twice in Asheville now and considered driving down to the Chattanooga show haha. Did he do the movie trivia bit with your crowd?

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    You’ll never live like common people. You’ll never do whatever common people do.

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      And their expensive dye jobs and tattoos. I saw a woman panhandling downtown the other day, wearing brand new Asics, with full sleeve tattoos and bright purple hair. Fuck that honestly, i wish I had tattoo money. Not only that, they see you pushing a stroller and beg for money. Every cent I have belongs to my kids, you entitled, fake poor pricks. The wealthy Western kids that Panhandle while traveling are by far the most deplorable though

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    this is the culture of most of my city. lots of people in very expensive clothes, beards, and etc that make them look like semi homeless bums. who work for a tech company and are banking six figures.

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      Tech people look like semi homeless bums because we don’t know how to dress ourselves. We aren’t buying expensive clothes. We’re spending our money on hardware, goofy nerdy shit, or investing in stonks for some reason.

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    I don’t give my money to anyone, usually. Except specifically some nader chasers I’ve
    followed for years. They’re out there losing windshields for my enjoyment. That’s it tho.

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    The rich have always imitated the rest of us.

    Tattoos used to see you barred from many military and civil service organizations. Now ink is considered cosmopolitan and they’re allowed.

    Low-income service workers used to occupy the top floors of residential buildings, and even set up makeshift accomodation on building roofs. They called them penthouses.

    Look at the shift in treatment of marijuana in the United States over the last decade.

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      can I have a source for that second claim? Wikipedia says penthouses were specifically designed to be upscale property as early as 1923

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        My understanding is prior to the invention of the elevator, the expensive floor was the ground floor.

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    This guy sucks.

    FYI: Trustafarian is a word that has been used for at least 25 years. He thinks its new.

    Anyways, I digress. Most trustafarians also suck, but this guy sucks for entirely different reasons.

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        If you listen to the first 3 or 4 minutes of this edgelords rant and don’t get why he sucks… and don’t see any red flags … well, if you’d like to pay me for my time, message me and I can send you my venmo, and upon receipt of $10, I’ll explain it to you.

        edit: to all y’all who think I owe y’all my time, you’re as entitled as this custie trustafarian pictured above.

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            “all the time”

            lol

            ALL THE TIME! ALL OF IT!

            Dude still sucks, even if y’all think I suck. Doesn’t change that dude sucks.

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              I didn’t watch the video, don’t know the guy, and may very well agree with you, I just think comments like you’ve left serve little to no purpose when you could just elaborate your point instead. That way people like me can make a more informed decision to potentially not give a shitty person more views or even waste my time on click bait content.

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      We used to use the term in the mid 90s to describe the kids hanging out in Berkeley begging for cigarette money, then getting picked up in Mercs to get driven home in the hills. They were usually white kids with dreads.

      They were dumbass kids. I’m sure the current batch are dumasses too I was never a fan, but in the scheme of things, there is a lot worse out there.

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      Tell me you’ve never heard of Meat Canyon without telling me you’ve never heard of Meat Canyon