VeganSwoletariat [comrade/them]

I built these muscles on beans and rice

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  • Understandable. I think maybe just focus on what you can control and your own actions if you bring it up with her. Like you said, this is a dicey conversation to have.

    But you could frame it as your own worries about you being a good sibling/whatever you decide to call yourself as the nuncle/nantie, because you both know your childhoods were rough. And because of that, wanting to support her as much as possible, and you want to give the kid as good as life as possible. Maybe if you offer yourself as help she won’t feel threatened by concern about the kiddo in the future. And long term, this is good for the kid too. Having a trusted non-parent adult is great for kids, *especially *if the parenting is poor.

    But anyway yeah i really have mixed feelings when i see people having kids. I’m not antinatalist either but… i live in colonizer usa and… i’m just gonna say it. we really don’t need any more treatlers here lol. But hey, material conditions and all that, likely their kids will be radical due to the impending collapse and it’s her body her choice to have kids so, it is what it is. sorry if my chatting is too advicey, feel free to tell me to fuck off to be honest lol :) i just like to be too helpful sometimes, it’s a problem.














  • Nothing like typing a multi-paragraph response to something expanding on the nuance of a situation and then people seemingly ignore all but the idea of what they thought the post would be and then respond to that. but then you read their response and it’s repeat of one of the points i made like it’s something new or didn’t bring up. sometimes they even repeat the conclusion of my own post to me like i didn’t just build a logical argument building up to it lol. and there’s nothing you can really respond with other than “yeah, i just said that” which makes you sound like a dick, even though they’re the ones not actually adding anything to the discussion.

    specifically rddit is the worst for this, some of the comments legit are AI generated now. Sometimes i search for things and find reddit threads from 5 years ago and the quality of discussion is actually interesting to read compared to slop from the past few years, despite being on rddit dot com. Dead internet starts with dead and artificial brains i guess.