

Understandable. I think maybe just focus on what you can control and your own actions if you bring it up with her. Like you said, this is a dicey conversation to have.
But you could frame it as your own worries about you being a good sibling/whatever you decide to call yourself as the nuncle/nantie, because you both know your childhoods were rough. And because of that, wanting to support her as much as possible, and you want to give the kid as good as life as possible. Maybe if you offer yourself as help she won’t feel threatened by concern about the kiddo in the future. And long term, this is good for the kid too. Having a trusted non-parent adult is great for kids, *especially *if the parenting is poor.
But anyway yeah i really have mixed feelings when i see people having kids. I’m not antinatalist either but… i live in colonizer usa and… i’m just gonna say it. we really don’t need any more treatlers here lol. But hey, material conditions and all that, likely their kids will be radical due to the impending collapse and it’s her body her choice to have kids so, it is what it is. sorry if my chatting is too advicey, feel free to tell me to fuck off to be honest lol :) i just like to be too helpful sometimes, it’s a problem.









You’re right, its not like this website was formed on dark humor about making fun of fascists or anything
We’ve moved on, ascended. There are no jokes allowed on the games board on hex bear dot net
i apologize for my crass humor. i realize now this haven of gamers… was actually a necessary safe space from fascism. Only here, in c/games, could we allow ourselves to forget that a fascist has immense power over our lives and be safe from joking about it. I will remove myself from this sub. Have a good day