I’m a genderfluid butch. Since coming out it’s so fucking weird how people treat me because of the dominant fragile culture.
-I’ll have people double check if its okay for me to touch a ‘cute’ thing.
-someone said “oh that’s right, it must make you feel more masculine to carry groceries” when I offered to take them from someone because the person was complaining earlier that their body was sore. And I was in better health at the time.
-give me weird looks when I gush over something cute or get excited.
Its like, I do not prescribe to toxic masculinity and work very hard to weed it out. I do not want that miserable life. Why are you trying to put that on me. Stop it!!
Just imagine ascribing such (or any, really) importance to “masculinity” and then have it be so fragile. Leading such an existence sounds like hell.
Cismen r scared theyll get treated the same way they treat ppl who “fail” at masculinity/manhood
I’m a genderfluid butch. Since coming out it’s so fucking weird how people treat me because of the dominant fragile culture.
-I’ll have people double check if its okay for me to touch a ‘cute’ thing.
-someone said “oh that’s right, it must make you feel more masculine to carry groceries” when I offered to take them from someone because the person was complaining earlier that their body was sore. And I was in better health at the time.
-give me weird looks when I gush over something cute or get excited.
Its like, I do not prescribe to toxic masculinity and work very hard to weed it out. I do not want that miserable life. Why are you trying to put that on me. Stop it!!
yeah people get upset on your behalf, super uncomfortable. its funny because its something they themselves are imposing on you and getting upset about