• OBJECTION!@lemmy.ml
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    8 days ago

    Why the fuck are y’all using these shitty apps that don’t display either profile pics or usernames properly? Literally worse functionality than just using a browser.

    Don’t get mad at me for your choice to use a shitty product that takes away basic functionality and causes you to be ignorant about people’s identities.

    “Um, actually, you’re being unfair to people using text-only browsers.”

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      No one is mad at you for the app they use. People are upset with your shitty behavior. No one that downvoted you did so because of transphobia or whatever bullshit reason you want to come up with. It’s because you’re a miserable keyboard warrior and likely troll.

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        “My shitty behavior,” that is, calling out misgendering and transphobia. But it’s definitely not transphobia that’s motivating downvoters. Oh, and you know this how? None of them have come out to say their reasons, because they’re transphobic cowards who don’t want to get called out for it.

        You’d better fucking believe I’m going to “aggressively” support trans people against you fucks.

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          Youre shitty behavior is doubling down on calling out the so called transphobia when it has been explained to you several times that many users don’t see the same label you are seeing. You admitted that yourself. I’m telling you right now as a person who downvoted you why I did so. It’s time to move along now troll.

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            And as I said, it’s not my fault you’re choosing to use shitty apps that take away basic functionality that everyone else can see.

            I’m telling you right now as a person who downvoted you why I did so

            Oh, interesting, because you said,

            I really want to down vote you because of your aggressiveness and off topic ranting but I’ll ask instead

            But I guess that was a fucking lie.

            It’s time to move along now troll.

            I ain’t going nowhere. You better believe I’m gonna keep calling out your shit every time you reply. You don’t like it, you can fuck off, transphobe.

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              There are real transphobes that are a serious threat to people and you diminish what it means to call people out on it when you use it toward every person you have a disagreement with. I started down voting when you avoided confronting facts. You’re the only one who is mad about how apps function. No one has responded with the aggression that you have shown so far.

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                Oh, “every person I have a disagreement with.” Is that what you think misgendering is, a “disagreement?” No, it’s a sign of blatant disrespect and dehumanization.

                No one has responded with the aggression that you have shown so far.

                Classic civility fetishism

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                  Who did i misgender? Youre calling me a transphobe because I asked a simple question and then explained my app doesn’t show the same username that your does. You are showing senseless aggression.

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                    8 days ago

                    Why do people on here act like defending something someone else said is somehow different from saying it yourself? You opened with saying you wanted to down vote me, and then called me a clown.

                    I still genuinely want to know why on earth, like completely unrelated to this, why you would choose to use an app that takes away basic functionality?

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          You need to stop screaming transphobe at everyone who disagrees with you, it’s a serious accusation, and it’s been explained to you that not everyone sees profile pictures.

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            And I’ve explained that defending misgendering is not just “a disagreement.”

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      8 days ago

      Their username is cupcakezealot, is it not? Why would anything else be displayed?

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        No, her display name is “katy✨”

        If you weren’t using an app that removes basic functionality, this is what you’d see:

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            Not my fault you choose to use it and then are ignorant of stuff everyone else can see. Make better choices.

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                If you go around misgendering people, then no, we are not, and I’m in fact quite proud to not be “nice” about that.

                Let me put it to you this way. If I see someone with a clearly female profile pic and display name getting called masculine terms, I’m going to aggressively call that shit out. So you can either:

                1. Stop using a dumb app that removes your ability to see shit

                2. Don’t default to masculine terms for anonymous users

                3. Don’t get upset when you are called out for misgendering, just own up to it

                4. Block me because you want to go around misgendering people and not getting called on it.

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                  First, I didn’t misgender anyone, second, I pointed out that a large chunk of Lemmy users don’t see either of those things.

                  You’re the one that took the ball and ran with it.

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                    Defending misgendering and criticizing people for calling it out is in no way better than doing it yourself. I don’t know why libs on here always play this, “Um, actually, I didn’t say that, I just defended someone else saying it,” bullshit. I do not care.