• hello_hello [hy/hym]@hexbear.net
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    13 days ago

    Anger is a good thing to work on especially since most people shut down and stonewall you if you get visibly angry/loud (for both justified and unjustified reasons).

    It especially sucks because getting angry for me triggers dysphoria which only makes me more angry.

    • EmmaGoldman [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      13 days ago

      Yeah, people absolutely shut down if you demonstrate visible anger, regardless of how justified that anger may be.

      I was raised Vulcan (/hj), so my parents would become completely impossible to talk to if I ever showed any visible emotion of any sort.