• Phoenixz@lemmy.ca
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    18 days ago

    I think this is also a reminder that people can always try to redeem themselves, and we should allow people to do so.

    Too many times I’ve heard “once a maga, always a magat!” Yeah, magats suck donkey balls but a lot of them have been learning and improving and we should applaud that. I want more magats to become ex magat.

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    19 days ago

    yaknow, lots of people make fun of juggalos, but most of the ones ive met have been incredibly caring people that don’t judge lol

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    19 days ago

    A few friendly reminders:

    It is OK to be wrong. Smart and kind people will not think less of you for being wrong. They WILL think less of you if you dig in your heels despite being presented evidence that proves you wrong.

    It is OK to change your opinion or view when given new information. This is how we grow as a species.

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      19 days ago

      I used to be a libertarian and I didn’t believe in climate change. It’s been a long time but neither of those things are true now.

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      19 days ago

      Exactly, dont give in to the narcissists which exist, the world is brighter than initially thought. We grow as a species by examining each others opinions and logically contesting them - changing our own or others opinions.

      The amount of narcissists and machavellists is not the majority - but they are the loudest, and that loudness is what makes regular people overwhelmed.

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    19 days ago

    Grew up as a hardcore republican in South Texas. Moved to southern Louisiana and quickly realized, nope not republican, just highly misguided. I was wrong. I admit it to everyone. Now as time has passed, staunch socialist. Such as life.

    • MJKee9@lemmy.world
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      18 days ago

      I cringe remembering how i would use Rush Limbaugh talking points in the mid 90s. Grew up in redneck central. Realized how shitty my views were when i got around people different from me in college. There is hope for all of the world’s dumbasses.

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    19 days ago

    In full honesty people change. This isn’t to forgive negative actions but also not chastise someone to eternity for the mistakes they have made so long as they have changed and are putting in the work to undo the harm they caused. We individually and ultimately as a society need forgiveness. To be human is to error and I personally don’t want a part in any community who can not manage the humility to forgive.

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      19 days ago

      A lot of younger people don’t realize how far we’ve come on gay rights in a very short period.

      In 1989 84% of Americans were opposed to gay marriage. It didn’t break 50% support until 2012. By 2024 it was nearly 70% in support, and all 50 states are now over 50%.

      Most of us growing up in the 80s and 90s thought homosexuality was wrong. It didn’t feel like we were prejudiced assholes at the time though.

      We now know we were wrong, and many of us have worked to make things better. And young people need to accept the fact that we were wrong and have changed.

      There’s something else we’re all wrong about now. An unacceptable prejudice we don’t recognize because we don’t feel like we’re biggots. I don’t know what it is and I may never get over it, but the next generation will look back and realize they were wrong about something. And the only way to move on will be to accept they were wrong, forgive themselves, and make the world better.

      It’s how we improve as a society.

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        19 days ago

        A lot of younger people don’t realize how far we’ve come on gay rights in a very short period.

        A while ago I heard recordings of white house press conferences from the Reagan administration when a reporter started asking about AIDS for the first time.

        I was just a kid during the Reagan administration, and not the kind of kid that listened to white house press conferences, so I had no recollection of this.

        It was shocking to me how casually they joked and laughed about gay people dying and how they made fun of the reporter for asking the question. It was also shocking that it wasn’t just Reagan’s press secretary but also the other reporters joining in and laughing.

        I found a link to it for another post recently:

        When Aids Was Funny

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        18 days ago

        Gay rights. Women’s rights. Minority rights. There are people alive today who went to segregated schools and, if they had a vagina, couldn’t open a checking account.

        These things are being actively scrubbed from history by people who desperately want to go back to those “good old days”. Sadly, it is working much better than it should.

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    19 days ago

    I didn’t think they even needed to explain themselves, I mean they were literally clowns. I can’t see what more they could have done to flag up that you weren’t supposed to take that shit seriously

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      18 days ago

      The fact he didn’t need to explain makes it that much more meaningful. He didn’t do it for himself, he did it because it was the right thing to do