We need more Divorced Guys who get really into cycling or who start a Nano Brewery in their garage, and keep it together enough to still get regular visitation rights.

  • huf [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    3 months ago

    and keep it together enough to still get regular visitation rights.

    these people exist but they’re just guys with a divorce, not Divorced Guys. it’s the Gamers vs people who play games all over again.

  • SerialExperimentsGay [she/her, she/her]@hexbear.net
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    3 months ago

    keep it together enough to still get regular visitation rights

    Thanks to the lobbying of men’s rights activists, courts in my country are frequently inclined to even grant men with a history of domestic violence visitation rights. But i’m not ruling out that some of these would still clear the bar for what society at large considers “good men”, the bar for that is literally in hell.

    • lil_tank [any, he/him]@hexbear.net
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      3 months ago

      As another comment mentioned, there are guys who got divorced because their relationship wasn’t going anywhere and there’s the Divorced Guy, who is an active misogynist and everyone can see it’s actually a very good thing that he doesn’t see his kids anymore because he’s very likely a domestic abuser