My wife and I are into foodstuffs and sex and it started small with a bit of honey or Nutella on the legs but now she wants me to have sex with a donut.

I told her I’m too scared to put sugars around my peehole because of the chance of getting a UTI but she told me “I’ll find someone who will” so I think I have no choice but to fuck a donut.

I’m scared what should I do