• sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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    1 month ago

    Yeah, I don’t understand what they’re getting out of it. Here’s my pros/cons list:

    Pros:

    • trust?

    Cons:

    • if you break up, they can screw you
    • if there’s a data breach, you can get screwed
    • they accidentally leave their phone unlocked
    • send phone for repair and the tech sees the video
    • they accidentally send it to someone else, mistaking it for another

    That doesn’t seem very balanced to me… Instead of mutually assured destruction (assuming this is reciprocated), just be a good BF/GF? Why isn’t that enough?