• Rose Thorne(She/Her)@lemm.ee
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    24 days ago

    As we used to say, “MMORPG means Many Men Online Role-playing Girls”.

    Which has went in a couple different directions, looking back.

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      24 days ago

      Ah, the Internet. A place where the men are men, the women are men, and the children are FBI agents.

  • Queen HawlSera@lemm.ee
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    24 days ago

    I feel like there are so many dudes who’d fall in love if only both parties were women, and that’s beautiful…

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        23 days ago

        I had someone tell me “He/Him Lesbians” were a thing recently and they weren’t referring to FTM Transguys either (Which I was relieved by as that would be a horribly offensive thing to call that crowd since a lesbian is a woman who exclusively is attracted to other women, and FTMs are NOT women.) Somedays I just don’t know if I’m getting too old and set in my ways or if the world has just lost the plot.

        These days I just kinda “nod” at things and go along with them even if I don’t agree or understand, within reason of course. (i’m not going to let anyone take fucking dieting advice from a breatharian)

        • Match!!@pawb.social
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          he/him lesbians is largely a historical teem referring to lesbians in the 1980s scene who would identify as (typically butch) women but go by he/him pronouns (see stone butch blues)

          (but it’s old enough that some people have rediscovered it)

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          Unpopular opinion : once you start blurring the lines of what gender is, the straightness based definitions of things go out the window.

          An FTM and MTF relationship is something alright. None of my business.

          but, linguistically speaking, I don’t think straight as a label applies to it, even though it’s male + female.

          it ties into the difference between someone being pansexual, and bisexual.

  • AVincentInSpace@pawb.social
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    24 days ago

    Fake: anon would not pretend to be gay up through the point of lesbian cybersex

    Gay: I don’t see how this story could possibly be any gayer

  • lol_idk@lemmy.ml
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    Can someone explain why men do this? It takes me just a few messages to figure it out most of the time. What’s the motivation?

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        24 days ago

        also some minor mental illnesses

        I don’t like to call it “mental illnesses” because it makes it look like it’s a property of the person; however, it is a property of society:

  • queermunist she/her@lemmy.ml
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    Eventually they’ll both think a little more deeply about why they “”“pretended”“” to be girls online. 🤔 😊