throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•I'm going to a dance party for the first time. I'm scared of becoming a fly on the wall. What can/should I do if this happens? **Edit: It was a ton of fun. Thank you all for submitting your thoughts**
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5 months agoThank you for your advice! The dance party was a ton of fun and I danced with lots of different people!
Just remember that standing around and not talking to anyone is as much a choice as going up to someone and asking for a dance.
This one in particular really stuck with me. And I was surprised how much truth there was to this line ^^
I knew this post wouldn’t be a very “positive” one. But man that’s messed up. I think I understand now.