brookedSmile
'94 model (trans)Woman, few bumps and scrapes but good condition overall
Poly marriage, Bi
A risk to your establishment
“If god we’re real, Bezos would have died in space”
“Apathy’s a tragedy and boredom is a crime”
“The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing”
“Quotes are for people too stupid to say anything intelligent on their own”
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brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•should i leave my fucking country(russia) as soon as i end school?English
0·11 days agoI dont even have tonread this post, if you have the means to do so. Yes gilr fucking LEAVE
not saying its much better here in the USA, but russia IS crazy right now
Editing this comment to say that theres a nonprofit called Rainbow Railroad thats objective is to help relocate any lgbt lettered people from unsafe places anywhere in the world, to a safe place. For anyone that needs it ❤️
I personally havent heard alot about them but if they are doing that successfully then i love it and im all for it. And perhaps it can be a link in the sidebar at some point.
Edit edit: according to their numbers theyve had just under 80,000 requests for help since founding, with over half being supported through their network, and almost 2500 ultimately relocated. Seems like awesome work, relocation numbers are low but i imagine thats because relocation is HARD. But it does seem like they genuinely help and they do have success stories
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Finally Got My Ears PiercedEnglish
0·11 days agoYay happy day! Ear piercings are such a great form of expression ❤️
White people are weird lol
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•hey look I found all of youEnglish
3·11 days agoOr “enlarged to show texture” 😂 i think that ones mine
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Which one of you were flying this plane?English
8·11 days agoyou guys need to be professional pilots
meow meow mew meow meow
😂😂 ill be honest tho if my pilots were this casual that their messing around on atc id personally feel pretty safe. ATC should just relax and let pilots enjoy life lol
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·11 days agoHoly i forgot all about the cut up shirt thing! Thats actually an awesome idea.
My partner (cis female) has to take estradiol for different reasons, and i cant count how many times i looked on jealously lol. Ill get there very soon though, im confident in that. Thank Gaia that i dont live in a backwards shithole, i dont envy anyone in that situation
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·11 days agoPerfect attitude to have ❤️
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·11 days agoYay snuggles are the best! 🥰 booooo powerpoints the worst kind of presentation.
Clean rooms are overrated. I mean obviously dont live disgustingly, but i do think too much emphasis is put on being spotless. I think its ok to just be mostly put together. Thats something im trying to get my partner to understand, because currently shell spend hours cleaning one thing and then beat herself up because its not perfectly clean
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·11 days agoHell yeah! We dont all have it together alll the time, even as adults. Youll find that adulthood is much the same as being a minor, especially if you dont have the most helpful birthgivers. I didnt either, and my upbringing was steeped in racism, homophobia, and any other bigotry and prejudice under the sun. The biggest thing i learned from all that is where hate gets you.
Sorry you cant wear what you want and shave what you want without being inspected, its gross. Policing your body is some real predator energy tbh. Im glad you have supportive friends, and its soooo close to the end of the school year your almost there!
I second getting a job or some kind of income, not because i tell everyone to “get a job”. But because its liberating having your own money, and from the sounds of it you might need it more than most.
Were always here for you girly, when life is rough make sure to take care of yourself! And your always welsome to come vent to me ❤️
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·11 days agoI feel it, alls i want to do is jump into the deep end but its probly better to take small steps 😂
I def will. Ill burn it all except my band t shirts, but those can still be girly lol
Thats awesome im happy for you! I love that shirt so much, whered ya get it?
I guess im privileged in having a floor to ceiling mirror in my room, i wish we all had floor to ceiling mirrors ❤️
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·12 days agoI cant wait til its in your hands!! Honestly im kinda the same way, i want it nowwwww 😭 Well to be fair id give my left kidney to start it 10 yrs ago, but later is better than never. 😂 Ill be here waiting with you, so exciting ❤️
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I loveee accessories!English
0·12 days agoOh trust me i know, power is in crowds! I play medic at the ice facility here in town when i can 😊
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Weekends almost over 😭English
0·12 days agoYay im glad i could help. No need for thanks, i love helping people and lifting them up, is just who i am ❤️
Yes sir, you heard correctly, your entire stock please. Have them pack it back on the pallets and leave by the delivery doors kthanks
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I was adorable at my show tonight and I wanted to share!English
0·12 days agoAdorable is an understatement!
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·12 days agoSounds a bit rough, i hate mood fluctuations 😭 i feel so fucking crazy when that happens.
I believe in your strength to endure tho, and im jelly of your boots!
You got this! ❤️
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·12 days agoYoull get there sooner than you think, promise! ❤️
5 years ago i woulda told you that im probly not going on hrt or doing anything medically. 3 years ago i couldnt imagine leaving my house even at night in fem. 2 years ago i woulda said theres no way that ill publicly out myself in any way. One year ago there no way i would left the house in broad daylight in fem. 6 months ago i woulda said no way to any surgeries. 3 months ago i would said its too soon for a pathways appt. I think you can guess how that all went 😂😂
Seriously though, your journey is yours and noone elses, take as long or short of a time as you need. Every sister here deserves to take their time blossoming into the beautiful flower theyre meant to be! ❤️
Edit: when i am done with masc clothes, there no way in hell me burning them doesnt end up as a post here
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Hows the middle week for everyone!?English
0·12 days agoAlone in hotel rooms? You make that sound bad, id be going wild! I guess if its your job tho 🤷♀️
Congraties im so happy for you! My first pathways appt is in 42 days and it CAN NOT GET HERE SOON ENOUGH. Im actually checking the app everyday like 3 times a day to see if theres an earlier appt.
That said, i still wont be able to start until the summer at the very earliest 😭


I just looked this up and the first links are trans reddit gatekeeping being trans on this issue. Saying people that have this done are “trans” (with the quotations 🤮🤮🤮) and how their just fetishists.
Its sickening, being in a marginalized community and experiencing all the bigotry and hate that comes from being trans, and turning around dishing out that exact same bigotry to other trans persons. Its really fucking gross.
I personally, think im either going to choose to stick with what i got, or get rid of and replace it. But thats my thought, my call, and my body. And your body is yours! Mine give me extreme dysphoria, maybe yours doesnt and i think thats awesome!
Fuck gatekeeping being trans, were in this together. I love that you have an exciting option for you, and id never judge that decision. ❤️
Edit: also any chance to piss off the fascist right is an opportunity that shouldnt be passed up!