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  • Nissa@lemmy.worldOPtoTransfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBigender
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    8 days ago

    Thank you for sharing! Hearing about other people’s journeys help me understand that there is no correct path. I’m still figuring things out but I things this is a good step in the right direction. If taking a step makes me happy then I’m moving in the right direction. I’ve even talked to the wife about laser hair removal and she wants it too so we are going to look into it together


  • Nissa@lemmy.worldOPtoTransfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBigender
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    Happiness is key! I consider myself lucky that i don’t have the severe body dysphoria. Sometimes I wish I could be physically feminine. Sometimes I want HRT but that’s a pretty big commitment. Kinda. I know most effects go away if you stop taking it but still. I hope your pain goes away in time


  • Nissa@lemmy.worldOPtoTransfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBigender
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    This is the hardest question to answer. If you asked, do I want to be super adorable like you are? Hells yea! If you asked, do you want to keep the mustache? Of course I do! That’s the problem with both, there isn’t a standard game plan. There isn’t a road map or step by step process. What i want is a magic swap gender button. This is a problem for future Nissa, present Nissa just wants to be seen, accepted, and happy. To walk hand in hand with Lewis not live in his shadow.

    Two roads diverge in a woods, yall started on one side and decided to cross the woods to the other. I’ve decided to walk amongst the trees.







  • Honestly, I don’t know. I’m “not trans” at work, just one of the guys. I have a transflag tardis sticker on my water bottle and no one has said anything. I know one transmasc guy at work and he doesn’t have any issues that I can tell. There is absolutely some hate, but I only know one guy who is an open peice of shit about it. It is definitely a white, right wing, cis-male dominated feild here in Nebraska but hate speech of any kind will still get you fired. Most guys don’t seem to care about anything other than your B.O. and doing your job. I love being an electrician. I get to learn things every day, I get to work with my hand, make functional art. After spending months of working your ass off, when you finally get to flip that switch and see all 50 lights come on is truly an experience. When half of them don’t and you have to track down why sucks but being able to explain to the apprentice why your wire connections being tight matters makes it worth it. It’s a job like any other, but I’ve been doing it for over 10 years and out or not ill be doing it 10 years from now. I’ll never be able to wear a dress to work, but I can slip into whatever I want when I get home.









  • I’m sorry your partner isn’t super on board, I consider myself super lucky. She’s definitely confused but wants me to be me, happy and free. I really try and explain everything to her and I know its alot but she’s doing her best. This is what I have:

    https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1

    Also a chastity belt thay helps hold it high and tight really helps.

    I’m not quite your size. 6’1" 185lbs but definitely more of a grower for sure. Going from like 2" to 6 or 7"? I don’t really measure it. It would be awesome to have a data base like that. I got a special body tape measure that’s been helping figure out my sizes but as all women lament there are vast inconsistencies in sizing.

    I hope that helps, thanks for you input!