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    Seriously. If she came up to you in a bar, or a park bench, anyone would be all over it. Anyone that says otherwise is either fooling themselves or a gay guy.

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      I can see how people find her attractive, but she is not my type at all. To me, she seems generic and unappealing looks-wise. She’s definitely not repulsive at first look, but nothing special either. Again, this is to me since I guess I have unconventional taste. However, throw in her toxic personality, and she becomes unattractive.

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        I’m just saying if you saw her at a bar, knowing nothing about her, and she came on to you.

        Knowing who she is, she’s repulsive.

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        I think you’re being sincere, but I would just add: have you ever seen an actor or actress in real life? It’s usually like, “Ohhhhhh…okay. Holy shit.” Imagine the difference between a picture on Tinder and when you meet–usually, they’re more attractive in-person, because good pictures are hard and a picture only shows so much. Now multiply that times Hollywood good looks and I think you’re severely underestimating what a gibbering mess you’d be if she were anywhere nearby.

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          Thank you trusting my sincerity. I agree that it’s possible she is more attractive in person. My point is that the style of her look is not something I find particularly attractive. I’ve only dated one girl with that look, and it was for a short while. I acknowledge that they can be and are regarded as quite attractive to others. However, It’s not what I find appealing in particular, and they’re definitely not a 10/10 to me. In fact, I was honestly surprised when I saw that Reddit had an obsession with Scarlett Johansson because until that point, I had never realized that she was seen as an epitome of beauty. I don’t want to speak poorly of them, but while I acknowledge that a lot of people find them to be gorgeous, they have physical qualities that I don’t appeal to me. However, Zoe Saldana and AOC 🤩.

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      Well I’m gay and a guy and I’m honestly not interested in either one, especially not JPS because she’s kind of volatile in a mean-spirited way. Not that I haven’t had girlfriends, my first three sexual experiences were with women and it was amazing. I still have pictures of nude women to look at when I’m in the mood. Being gay doesn’t mean my “man parts” can only be turned on by guys - and most guys do not turn me on.

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      How about you shut the fuck up, you incel? Just because not everyone is into the same 08/15 blonde bimbo looks you are doesn’t mean they are gay. God, people are so braindead.

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        Lol wow, someone felt insulted for no reason. Calm down Brody, it’s not that serious.

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        And so what if they ARE gay, why is that still considered a terrible insult. I’m gay and I have an amazing life, it’s been a great gift. And I find many women very attractive, where does this idea come from that if you’re gay, and a male, you must dislike the looks of women? Because that is not true at all.

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            I just mean people saying something or someone is gay as a put-down. As a gay person, it’s actually wonderful - I don’t see why it is any kind of a put down at all.

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              They didn’t say it as a put down, they said it was a reason you would not think a woman is attractive which is true.

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                But that is NOT true. What’s with all this stereotypical beliefs about gays? To say that being gay is a reason you wouldn’t think a woman is attractive is absolutely dumb. Being gay does NOT MEAN I DON’T FIND WOMEN ATTRACTIVE. Being gay has NOTHING TO DO with how I feel about women in any way except perhaps that I have a preference for guys, so what - it doesn’t mean I’m not turned on by women. WHERE IS THIS DISCONNECT COMING FROM!!

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                    You should probably try to mature into an actual human being, but that ain’t gonna happen either. So let’s not kid each other. And by the way, you can shove your asinine opinions up your worthless asshole whjle you’re at it.

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                  I’m straight and I don’t find dudes attractive. I assumed it worked the same way for gay people. My bad I guess.

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                    But I hope, even if you’re straight, you don’t necessarily find dudes repulsive either. I have straight friends and they are well adjusted enough to be able to look at another guy and say, “now that’s a good looking guy” - or, “I wish I looked that that.” After all, if guys are universally repulsive, why would any woman ever want to be with one.

                    In the same way even though I’m gay, I certainly don’t find women unattractive. Don’t most guys think that boobies are amazing? I still do - and I am talking about female ones here not male ones. I see why guys would enjoy wrapping their hands around that.

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          Don’t spin this into some fucking acceptance shit. I don’t give a fuck who you stick your dick in. The point that drives me wild is that this piece of shit implies that the only way someone could disagree with him is if they aren’t heterosexual. Well, I am and I think this woman is okay looking, but I wouldn’t do a backflip if I saw her on the street. I just fucking hate this incel shit so much.

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            If you don’t give a shit, then why get upset over it. Calling someone a piece of shit because you are overly sensitive about “incel shit” is really your own personal problem and shows a huge amount of anger and lack of empathy toward others whose views differ from yours. And that’s gonna be a miserable way to go through life.

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              Hu? You don’t know shit about my life. I can get upset about people being stupid and still be content with my life. If you want to go down that path, I could say your life is gonna be miserable if you are going to be artificially upset about some randoms opinion on the Internet. But I am not, because I don’t know anything about you.

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                You don’t shit about my life either, and you’re a fine one to be calling other people “stupid.” You’re the one all upset about having to accept others, not me. I’m not that dumb so don’t be so quick to think you’re smarter than everyone. Anybody who thinks that acceptance of others is some kind of “incel shit” is mentally diminished in my opinion. A truly sick person.

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                  Dude, you do not get my point. I’ll be going, this wasn’t about acceptance until your morally superior ass strutted in to reprimand me about my wrongful ways.