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opiumfree [any, any]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 month ago

when youve been on the sidelines of humanity watching in for so long that you cant really be in someones vicinity without feeling like this

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when youve been on the sidelines of humanity watching in for so long that you cant really be in someones vicinity without feeling like this

opiumfree [any, any]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 month ago
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  • opiumfree [any, any]@hexbear.netOP
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    people say im so disciplined for not consuming any pornography but i stopped because i was tired of feeling like this

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    • puppygirlpets [pup/pup's, she/her]@hexbear.net
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      did it improve when you stopped watching porn?

    • Lowleekun [comrade/them, she/her]@hexbear.net
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      Hmm fuck, i haven’t even considered why I stopped but this feels like it could be a reason.

      A quick question, are nudy pictures considered to be porn?

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      Omg same, I only watch solo stuff sometimes for this reason

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        omggggggggg i thought i was too freaky for this but i do the same exact thing. if we had a follow function on here i would follow you

  • Acute_Engles [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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    The emotion I’m getting from the op picture is like defiant anger. I don’t think i understand

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      it can show different things depending on the context. people usually it to show hopelessness and shock

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        Ah ok I’ve never seen it before

  • 30_to_50_Feral_PAWGs [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    When you fly under the radar for so long that people just think you’re part of the terrain

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    sidelines? I dont even know where the field is

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