Not an even an incel thing, this guy’s had sex, has had a long term girlfriend previously, but for some reason just doesn’t come to meetups with women there any more and even makes an excuse to leave if a woman he doesn’t know well arrives unexpectedly
truth is, most of us are raised with gender segregation growing up and its VERY easy for us to not be able to adjust well into adulthood and prefer talking to the same gender only.
im the same way, ive dated but i feel very uncomfortable with the opposite gender. i feel like men are very brutal to women (socially and in terms of gender based violence) and women are very brutal to men (socially, sometimes violence as well). i wish it werent this way.
ive improved since becoming a communist bc the risk of violence is lower but its still a big ache i have