• Talcosis@lemmy.zip
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    1 month ago

    I mean, I definitely don’t start convos the way people want me to start convos, either. Idk. Just had the weirdest experience last night. Two weeks ago, I met this girl who was pretty cool in a friend way. Also, she doesn’t swing my way, no problem. Cool person. So last weekend I went out with her and some of her friends. One of her friends was kinda cute, we talked a bit, but not long at all. Nothing I would consider serious. I wasn’t trying to hit on her. She didn’t seem uncomfortable at all.

    Then last night, hanging out with the same group of people. This girl I talked to would straight up run away if I got within ten feet of her. Happened twice, and then I started avoiding her because like…clearly causing distress with my presence alone.

    What do I do with that? I mean apart from keep avoiding her, cause clearly she doesn’t want to be anywhere near me.

    • ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 month ago

      Yeah idk what I’d do with that either, idk that I’ve ever had that reaction (if I have I just never noticed). I mean “completely ignore” seems like what I’d probably do tbh, definitely never interact again.

      Is that the right move? Fuckin’ idfk lol. But that’s what I’d default to.