• Fedegenerate@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    Wrong question. The right question is “how are we failing women too?”

    Wrong, the right observation is "reality doesn’t support my assertions.

    Men don’t attend therapy at the rates you think they should. Men are highly resistant to what you are offering.

    When I said this you said I was victim blaming. They are, we agree. I said we need to get men into therapy and you got upset with me.

    I’ve shown you a reason why men don’t go into therapy, you took some imagined offence. Please God listen. It is well discussed why men do not go to therapy, you only just learned what TM meant yesterday. Now is not the time for your to provide assertions, without evidence, for a concept you just learned about yesterday.

    Your proffered solution to that isn’t to make your offering more palatable. Your solution is to blame them and tell them to suck it up.

    That’s called a lie. Do better.

    Me: “Whatever. Maybe we could try serving something that he might actually enjoy?”

    You haven’t done that. Vegetables work for the people they work for.

    Vegitables are much better than sitting at home chronicaly masturbating as you JAQed off. We have a society that pressures boys not to eat vegitables. It was foolish of you to suggest. It was harmful of you to suggest when the aim is to get boys eating healthy. That’s bad I would like to releave that pressure.

    I like the healthy eating framing. We know healthy eating is just as benefital to little boys as to girls. We know little boys eat less healthy than little girls. We also know society puts pressure on little boys to not eat healthy.

    It isn’t society putting pressure on little boys to not eat healthy, there’s just something anti-boy about eating healthy.

    Do I have your position right?

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      2 months ago

      It isn’t society putting pressure on little boys to not eat healthy, there’s just something anti-boy about eating healthy.

      Turns out Little Johnny doesn’t actually hate vegetables. Turns out all you’re serving is mushy green beans. Turns out he actually likes romaine lettuce and snow peas and carrots and spinach. But you’ve got it stuck in your head that mushy green beans are the only healthy option you can think to offer. Anyone turning up their nose at green beans is simply “unhealthy”.