Just came across this question on reddit and tbh…i don’t know

People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don’t know how to speak, i don’t smile often, i’m shy, i look very judgemental or i’m just too egotistic…so i don’t know if i’m actually someone worth hanging out with

And no i didn’t make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

I don’t know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don’t really hold back against me

So what about y’all?

  • thisisdee@lemmy.world
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    27 days ago

    I wouldn’t initiate or invite, but if I just happen to be in the same room with myself it would be fine. It would be mostly quiet and we do our own thing, or the occasional silly philosophical or metaphorical discussions but probably nothing real or deep. Or maybe it’ll be a free therapy session, having 2 brains figure out my emotions

  • quediuspayu@lemmy.world
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    28 days ago

    Probably yes, I talk to myself all the time and my sense of humour happens to be pretty similar to mine. At the very least is worth a try.

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      27 days ago

      Agreed! We both like the same shows… never fighting about what to have for dinner… it’s great

  • corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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    27 days ago

    hangout

    That’s a noun. You want “hang out” with a space. It’s the difference between asking “what’s up, Chuck” and “what’s upchuck?” Supdog is the exception.

  • sbv@sh.itjust.works
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    28 days ago

    Probably not. I don’t really want to be around people who act like me. I’ve done a decent job of reigning in my most asocial behaviours, but they still get through.

    On the flip side, other people seem to like the version of myself that I currently project, so I think I’m doing a good enough job.