• HikingVet@lemmy.ca
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    5 months ago

    Well, as a person with adhd and time on my hands because work is slow, I could use some reading materials.

    I believe talking about things that don’t often get mentioned is good. Even if it’s a terrible subject. As long as it’s handle respectfully.

    Also I’m aromantic asexual and not looking for smut.

    • thevoidzero@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      Hi. I don’t have sources but I think it makes sense logically.

      Like if you’re a lesbian and want to be with someone in a society like the one where you can’t have lesbian relationship but a guy can have multiple wives, I think you’d get into the same harem. You’d consider the guy as a cost of being with the one you want.

      And maybe there are good guys too, and they just let you be there and live how you like. I don’t know how prominent arranged marriage is in those cultures, but some guys could be doing that and just sheltering people too.

      • ikt@aussie.zone
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        5 months ago

        I don’t have sources but I think it makes sense logically.

        pretty sure most women in a polygamy hate being in them, read more than a few articles about first wives then getting put aside for a younger model but they can’t leave because no money (based islam 🙄)

        • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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          5 months ago

          I’m not sure “women can’t leave dysfunction relationship because they won’t have income” is a problem unique to Islam.