I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

  • rumba@lemmy.zip
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    5 months ago

    Bots turn down from 10 to 3

    Trolls turn down from 11 to 4 (depending on the instance)

    Downvotes don’t mean anything and your comments can’t generally be buried.

    Mods/Admins are generally far less petty

    Most instances are more open about things that are posted, even if the inhabitants of that instance are less accepting of it.

    Every instance has it’s own ettiquite, be sure to read the stuff in the welcome.

  • brucethemoose@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    5 months ago

    First thing, Lemmy is in need of content and likes recruiting. Hence you got 315 replies, heh.

    Basically, if you aren’t a bigot, you don’t have to worry about what you say. You can be politically incorrect in any direction and not get a global/shadowban from the Fediverse.

    Each instance has its own flavor and etiquette.

  • Jankatarch@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    edit-2
    5 months ago

    Average user age is slightly more older here.

    The three most common groups are .world(liberals), .ml(socialists), and .blahaj(uwu)

  • pelespirit@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    5 months ago

    My best advice is that if it seems inactive, that means you should subscribe to a bunch of stuff and switch to hot, top 6 hour and scaled. Active is the default and seems the least active.

    The comments in this thread will give you a great idea on how most people act around here. Hate the idea and not the user and you should be fine.

    Your “also plz be kind :D” comment tells me that you’re going to go through a bit of withdrawal on the hate and drama. It’s great here even even though we have a few trolls and bots.

  • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    5 months ago

    No need to show off. Don’t be a snarky asshole. Be nice to people, but be real. Don’t be afraid to be weird or answer with an autistic essay. It’s okay to dissent, just don’t be a fucking asshole about it. Realize that on Reddit, that shit is all bots and Nazi trolls and meek confirming bitches afraid to be real and tell shitty people that they’re wrong and exactly why. Welcome. Prepare to have your eyes ripped open.

  • Professorozone@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    5 months ago

    So when I came here from Reddit I didn’t know what to pick, so I picked .world figuring it would be bigger or something. Over time it seems like people are saying that .ml is just horrible. I actually thought that .ml stood for militant full of right wing tankies ( don’t know the exact definition of that either). Lately someone essentially berated me for being on the worst one. Just now, I went to the little pull out on the side to see how to change it and what the options were and didn’t even see how to do that.

    Bottom line, I have no clue how any of this works. I just wanted to see some interesting content, news from a different perspective, some fun memes, and some cool comments. I don’t even understand what fediverse means other than it’s kind of like borg technology, meaning that the information is spread across a bunch of servers instead of a single point of failure.

    Maybe one day I’ll look into all of this, but seriously I have a life. As long as I open it and get what I want, I’m good. I almost never post because they are almost always removed for violating some rule. The last time I posted a question on a Linux forum and was getting some really good answers only to have it removed for violating a rule I didn’t even understand. LOL.

    Good luck to you.

  • davel [he/him]@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    5 months ago

    Each Lemmy instance has its own rules, and each community as well. Please read them before posting, because rule #3 for this community is:

    1. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    5 months ago

    By ratio, there are way more communists than on Reddit. There are three major groups, anarchists, Marxist-Leninists, and liberals, and each instance tends to have more of one or maybe 2 than the others. Getting a feel for instance culture goes a long way.

  • Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    5 months ago

    Don’t do shit like “lemmy etiquette”. Just follow human etiquette and be a pleasant human and everything will be fine.

    Also stop worrying so much about “doing anything bad”. Sometimes you fuck up, sometimes you upset people, it’s no big deal. You’re good.

    • sunbeam60@feddit.uk
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      5 months ago

      I’m a pleasant human but find myself often downvoted for what I consider an average social democratic view; taking the viewpoint that, in my country, cops are generally trustworthy, the market works when regulated by a well functioning democracy and it’s ok to be wealthy, but expect to be properly taxed.

      • Twongo [she/her]@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        5 months ago

        i am sorry for being insulting but claiming the cops in the UK are generally trustworthy is delusional and just insulting to a LOT of people.

      • BrainInABox@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        5 months ago

        You really need to stop saying “average” when you mean “well off, white, westerner”.