trinicorn [comrade/them]

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Cake day: January 16th, 2025

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  • porkbun is the one yeah. There are other options but they all kinda suck and so far I haven’t seen anything bad with porkbun

    don’t use the big 3 cloud providers (aws, google, azure), they’re ridiculously overpriced for what you need.

    There are ways you could do it from your home internet connection, but it makes it slightly more complex especially if you want to be at all anonymous. Cloudflare, if you’re cool with using them, does offer this capability I believe. But of course you’ll be limited by the quality of your internet connection, stability of your power, and keeping your computer on at all times. But there’s advantages too (you could have full disk encryption, cost is lower, you’ll likely have a more powerful PC at home than the server you would rent, etc)


  • I actually agree about just about all of that but if you have knowledge that a request is illegitimate why should the site ban you from sharing that info? that just feels wrong. its not like there’s a huge history of constant fights over metaposting and stuff (they are rarely actually made, 1 this month), and anything over the line gets removed by mods. I can see how it could turn into a slapfight I guess, but it’s been allowed for the past however many months or more and it hasn’t been much of an issue in my view.





  • I just don’t think, especially with money at stake, that it’s reasonable to hope that every single user who ever uses the comm will do so in good faith, or be obvious enough in their bad faith to be sussed out. And even one person with an axe to grind could potentially get someone banned with fabricated evidence. I think we have to build systems that are resilient to abuse where possible and the strong possibility of disciplining a user in need of help feels worse to me than allowing someone to collect donos and not update the post to reflect them. I guess you could say that any mod action being taken requires multiple reports from established accounts showing a pattern of behavior, not just one and done. That would help.

    but frankly sending screenshots back and forth offsite also overcomplicates the process of both donating and receiving donations. It just doesn’t feel like a well fleshed out plan to me


  • I definitely get the instinct here, but the status quo is that metaposting is allowed (just not direct reply comments) and I count two metaposts in the past month. The one that incited this post, and one of someone thanking the donor who came through for them, weeks ago.

    I don’t think that’s an unmanageable level of metaposting or being done in bad faith. If they were proposing opening up more metaposting I’d agree with you but the question being posed is keep the status quo or shutting off all avenues for feedback or calling out anything, because the mods don’t want to be the ones to handle concerns for ethical reasons. So that kind of nixes handling it privately.

    I appreciate that reactive comments just harassing people asking for help are deleted and agree we need to clamp down on those as strongly as possible, but I don’t see that problem happening with posts, historically