Generally I like to frame it as first order vs second order intolerance. First order intolerance is where a person is intolerant of someone else because of some inherent characteristic like race/ethnicity/nationality, gender, or sexual orientation. Second order intolerance is a reaction to first order intolerance. First order intolerance is unjustified, but second order intolerance is just a restoration to maximized tolerance.
Generally I like to frame it as first order vs second order intolerance. First order intolerance is where a person is intolerant of someone else because of some inherent characteristic like race/ethnicity/nationality, gender, or sexual orientation. Second order intolerance is a reaction to first order intolerance. First order intolerance is unjustified, but second order intolerance is just a restoration to maximized tolerance.