Hedgeknife

i dont :'(

but seriously: community, therapy and eating better has been nice. And allowing myself to feel messy.

Agreed, no need to throw a bitchfit over one inclusive suggestion!

An absolutely strange hill to die on, and may be an indicator of a bigger hissy fit in the future.

As someone who is the first to go “yeah, but so-n-so does this-n-that,” I needed this reminder of the thin line between “being informative” and “being a killjoy.”

Caveats are nice, but I still shouldn’t discourage folx from making better choices.

anything said after the “However” negates anything said before it.

so try harder ig

the problem here is that he never grew up

I don’t have contact to many black Americans…

Then take our fucking word for it. We live this. Listen to us.