It takes constant vigilance and getting called a dictator a lot. Trust me it’s for the best.
I was a mod on TheSilphRoad, a Pokémon GO mechanics/research/theory sub. Being both a buggy and multiplayer game, rants and hate posts are going to be common, but we really had to draw a line in the sand due to how prevalent it was/is. “We are here to discuss game mechanics. If you want to complain, take it to the general discussion sub.” Because if they used the cover of discussing how a mechanic is broken and the last 1/3 of the post was a rant, the ONLY discussion on the post was going to be quips and complaints. We got called Niantic shills a lot.
But it made a MONUMENTAL difference in changing the culture of that space. It fostered a lot of data-driven analysis that would have been ignored on a sub that would otherwise be dedicated to pointing out flaws and yelling at the devs.
Fediverse is exactly the same. Anyone can make any community they want. You need to make YOUR community in your image, lest it become a place that doesn’t suit the purpose in the first place. The complaints will always be 10x louder than appreciation of keeping a maintained space, so keep that in mind.






















‘Roof, room, broom, and root aren’t all pronounced the same’ was enough to know I’m from Minnesota lol