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  • The someones in question, namely the wait staff, are often the biggest defenders of tipping culture in my experience. They don’t WANT a higher base wage to happen. Without tipping they’d make less money and the career wouldn’t be viable for adults. Boo hooo. *in their words, not mine. I guess I had to clarify.

    So when it comes to asshole accusations…eh. That’s your opinion. Nobody made them choose that career. You’re being protectionist and I’d reject that shaming attempt if I didn’t still tip a little.

    I didn’t seek out being a cop, a priest, a door knocking scammer either. I think tipping is gross and I’d rather be homeless than prey on people and then defend my preying on people because it pays the bills. I lived a decade impoverished. Even at my most desperate I never turned to predatory careers. It’s a choice.

    I tip a flat 5 bux. Not a percentage. For someone I interact with for 10 minutes I think it’s reasonable. I hope they split it with the cook staff. If it’s acceptable for a delivery driver who does work harder and has higher vehicle maintenance demands, then it’s fine in a restaurant too.











  • Sixty@sh.itjust.workstoScience Memes@mander.xyzrespect dandelions!
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    1 month ago

    Where I live it’s frankly too dry for uniform grass lawns and dandelions will completely take over if left alone. I’d be fine with it if I didn’t find the green jagged leafed plant and milky red stems so fugly, never mind the nice yellow flower.

    I’ve been overseeding with white clover and native wildflowers since moving in both of which thrive in the spring choking out dandelions naturally. Puts nitrogen back into the soil too unlike grass.

    All I do is aerate now.

    Better for the bees in two ways. One, I’m not spraying chemicals and two, dandelions are actually pretty shit tier from a bee perspective.






  • Yes. My partner at the time had brought something up and I started to disagree.

    Mid retort I realized I was speaking from my shitty upbringing again, paused to mull that over, and then rejected my own retort right there in front of her.

    It’s not often anymore, but I’m still surprised by the occasional stupid idea put into my head by religious indoctrination as a know nothing child that I have to deprogram from even decades later.

    How did your interlocutor react?

    She values my ability to self reflect on the spot like that, so she reacted with love.

    How would you like someone to react if you concede errors?

    Without malice.