• Krudler@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      It’s insane, I even made a complaint to the director who of course is a woman, and she effectively denied that it was happening or could happen.

      I told her I don’t even want people not to think these things, everybody who is in their own place of trauma has to get their shit off their chest.

      All I wanted was a place where men didn’t have to hear this crap.

      And that’s being incredibly neutral in my opinion because there are a lot of opportunities for men to talk about just how insane and shitty women can be. But I don’t want to talk about those things, I just want them to stop shit talking men especially their own clientele.

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        1 year ago

        Pushing any sort of socio-political agenda on people who desperately need help should be grounds for losing your license to operate. If someone was having a mental health crisis and the people who were supposed to help them instead tried to convince them that women have it worse, I could see it pushing that person over the edge into committing suicide. That sounds so incredibly invalidating and possibly malicious.

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            1 year ago

            “I am depressed.”

            “Have you considered that women have it worse?”

            Is the type of mental health care you are okay with?

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                1 year ago

                I mean, that’s essentially what OC said his coworkers were doing. Not those exact words, sure, but summarization =/= strawman.

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                    1 year ago

                    Lol what? It’s a health facility, not a fucking Walmart. You don’t have to be a bigot to not want your feelings invalidated by a misandrist counselor.

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        1 year ago

        putting out the fire of gender inequality with oil

        its interesting how when people are a majority they dont see the irony in their actions.