• birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    12 days ago

    bit unhinged opinion incoming of me but ngl i feel envy for k-pop stars for that reason. they appear to look androgynous with seemingly little effort.

    i actually desire to look more fem, but it’s the apparent ease of looking a particular way that makes me envious of those stars, tbh.

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      11 days ago

      Right?? Maybe that’s Western gaze, and there are cues we just don’t pick up on as easily visually. But damn, I wish I could pull off such effortless androgyny.