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  • Letztertod [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    It feels weird, being fat and disabled at the same time, doctors assume you’re disabled because you’re fat but you were fat before any disability fully manifested. It’s weird, very weird. I am afraid of doctors now despite the fact I have needed constant medical care until I developed an adult’s immune(o compromised) system, doctors scare me, so do teachers, in a nutshell any authority that can dictate if you’re worthy of living. Often you feel like you’re afloat out there, looking in at everything these able bodied people do, they earn their own money so they can eat their favourite food, their arms don’t shake when working with a frying pan so they can cook their favourite without anyone stopping them, their body has never betrayed them so they’re beautiful as dictated by our overlords, them and their beautiful peers talk about how they want a world in their image and that world seems to be the one that will come true, a world where you can’t fit in.

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      14 days ago

      Even in cases where the disability is caused by obesity, they remain just as callous and cruel. Even in cases where reducing weight will lead to an improvement, modern weight-loss medicines aren’t properly distributed.

    • un_mask_me [any]@hexbear.netOPM
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      13 days ago

      their body has never betrayed them

      This right here is one of the things that feels the hardest to get the able-bodied to understand; personal solutions and standardized metrics will never serve as a blanket answer for the unique experiences of those living with disabilities, and just because they can do it doesn’t mean you can do it too, even with accommodations.

      • Letztertod [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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        12 days ago

        Yes, for us our body won’t work. We can’t fit in a nice economic plan or market. Most of these people don’t know how it feels when your back stops supporting your arm suddenly and your writing speed suddenly drops in an exam, how it feels when your legs suddenly refuse to move, how it feels your brain can’t add two numbers.