I get what you mean about not knowing what to wear. I am allergic to spending money and suck at doing things for myself, so I don’t have an extensive enough wardrobe or enough experience to know my style. I’m also a shut in, so I put things off that I really shouldn’t. I don’t really have sage advice on this one, so maybe we can seek to improve together.

Also, if HRT is kind to you, you’ll eventually reach a point where bras are necessary with most outfits. I can’t even wear a baggy shirt to hide them anymore; I need either two layers of baggy clothing or a bra of some sort. Also, they often hurt in the early stages even without a ton of growth, and bras can prevent them touching things.