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sadly the part dosent seam to have a name on it even before it blew up:

but its connected to pin1 and pin3 of the IC so maybe the datasheet can help you https://www.meditronik.com.pl/doc/plusik/cxa_l0624_vjl.pdf
Edit: Found a similar PCB with 2x that component

makes me think its probably a capacitor
edit edit: found another related board where the element at least hast text on it

“M104 3M62” not sure what that is tho
Well, 104 on a capacitor would normally decode to 100nF
Is it a 3-terminal device? You may have to desolder it to find out. That also lets you poke around with the insides (hollow? layers?)
Probably a capacitor, either 2 terminal or 3 terminal. I was originally thinking GDT but it looks like even the SMD varieties are mostly cylindrical shaped rather than rectangular prism.
Solid state relay? With like a heat sink on top?
@la508
i found an image of a different version of the same product i think,
it seems like this one has some red components that look like film capacitors in place of that blown smd thingI probably won’t be able to identify it, but including the name of the thing it’s a part of along with a model number would help.
Looks kinda like an un-encapsulated, surface-mount polyester capacitor e.g. https://dir.indiamart.com/items/kemet-f161zs104k630v-polyester-film-capacitor-surface-mount-s98697.html
They don’t generally explode like that though unless they see overvoltage.





