Body positivity is such a strange concept to me. There’s efforts to reclaim words while simultaneously calling them bad if used as an insult. Ideally, people wouldn’t be offended by someone describing their body with common descriptors, but socially there is so much value attributed to certain body types that it’s almost impossible to avoid having an emotional response of some kind to various descriptors.

For example, It’s not bad to be fat, but calling someone “fat” is almost universally considered a bad thing. The same definitely seems to go for the idea of being “short.”

I’m asking this question because I can’t put my finger on why but something seems to be different about the use of the term “short” from the use of the term “fat.” I think that part of it is how, to me at least, the term “fat” is so generic and hard to nail down to a discrete definition, implying that the word really doesn’t have a clear connection to reality. On the other hand, height is a single-dimensional number. You either are above a certain threshold, or you aren’t.

I recently learned that May 6th to May 10th is “short king week” because it’s 5’6" to 5’10" which then prompted me to search for the origins of “short king” and apparently the person most-credited with popularizing the term is Jaboukie Young-White who claims the term was meant to include all men under 6 feet tall. The average adult male height is 5’9" leaving men considered roughly average to be called “short” which is still considered an insult by many.

I dunno. As a term that was intended to champion body positivity compared with how the term is actually used, what do you think of “short king?”

  • Vanth@reddthat.com
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    7 months ago

    I would never refer to someone as a “short king” unless I heard directly from them they want to be called it. I still probably wouldn’t, TBH. I’m just not going to call anyone by any immutable characteristic unless we are really good buddies or teammates where I would expect nicknames.

    Also, lol at any man under six foot being “short”. Jaboukie is a comedian, maybe men shouldn’t take that one seriously.

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      7 months ago

      Haha, right? I could see it as a nickname with an in-group of buddies, especially for the short guy who is a social beast (I’ve worked for a couple).

      As for under 6’…IIRC, 6’ and taller is like 14% of men? (Been a while since I read the stats).

      Edit: 80-90% of adult American males are under 6’. The average height is 5’ 9’.

      I’ve always been one of the smallest around… Never gave a shit after about 2nd grade - once you accept who/what you are, what other people do/say/think just doesn’t matter. This is “Growing Up 101” stuff.