Shared Teddit URL, if Teddit does not work then use this old Reddit URL: https://reddit.com/r/privatelife/comments/k7vngo/2020_special_the_good_the_bad_and_the_ugly_my/
Lemmy has a 5000 letter limit, and my writeup is 11000 letters, hence the direct linking.
It is not easy to write articles, I guess.