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Cake day: July 6th, 2023

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  • I’d upgrade the depression away from my brain and give myself the ability for hyperfocus at will and to turn off sensory issues. Taking the autism and ADHD away altogether would leave me a different human, idk that almost feels like dying a little bit, or being lobotomized. Wouldn’t want to lose a part of my brain that makes me me. But super valid to want to be neurotypical!

    Thinking about it, if it counts as an organ, idk if I wouldn’t rather change my immune system to stop attacking healthy tissue and get better at attacking viruses instead. Tough choice.











  • To this day I don’t understand this. My therapist used to ask this so many times and every time I was like:?? In my brain??? Where thoughts and feelings live???

    Can someone explain?

    Edit: the fact that you nice people here were able to make me understand this question and my therapist did not reinforces why I stopped going!


  • I’ve had such a different experience than what the article describes! Long nails were usually shamed, you were high maintenance, extra, too girly. Girls with long nails would constantly get reminded that men don’t find them attractive, as if that was relevant (I think I’ve even seen that in this thread).

    I guess we have a tendency to do the opposite of what we’re told to do growing up. I love growing out my nails now. Sometimes I feel like keeping them short, too.

    I’ve also been a nail biter for over 20 years and short nails are much harder to not bite for me, so keeping them short is an added mental hassle. Still, worth it sometimes.